”Be the bigger person… Do not sink to the their level…”
Have you heard it too? Surely, there is a meaning to it. When people are tired, sad, annoyed and lack the strength to respond you i a good manner at the moment – be the bigger person for a while. Please be.
”Love me the most when I deserve it the least, because that is when I need it the most”
This is wisdom.
BUT!
And that is an important BUT! When you find yourself in environments where there are also Narcissistic and / or Psychopathic individuals present, this attitude will eventually break you down completely. Constantly trying to be the bigger person towards a person with a personality disorder is extremely toxic.
Learn the difference between healthy and sick, healthy and unhealthy.
