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Research has shown there seems to be a connection between ADHD and psychopathy. It is known that a small proportion of children having the diagnosis of ADHD develop psychopathy. It is a connection which researchers want to learn more about, and it’s being worked on. The connection could be as follows:

“Children with ADHD are at risk of developing anti-social traits due to the lack of attention and impulse control. It is considered that the risk of psychopathy increases significantly if the environment does not correctly assess the condition, but instead punishes the child for things he or she cannot help.”

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Believe in your children’s ability to succeed. Believe in their dreams. Sometimes children are dreaming of big accomplishments in life. Do not diminish their dreams by saying: ”Well, well, we’ll see about that.”

A neighbour of mine dreamed of becoming a fighter pilot when he was a child. It may not be the first thing you want for your children, but it was his dream. It is also hard work, not easy to succeed.

Twenty years later, a fighter jet flew in loops above my neighbour’s house. Their son showed them his appreciation – His loops were a great Thank You to his parents who supported him and believed in him during childhood. He had reached his goal in life.

Remember that the attitude you have towards your child becomes the child’s attitude towards oneself – his or her self-image. A parent is, of course, of crucial importance to a child. Parents who perceive their children as annoying, will have children who learn that they are annoying people. Parents who see their children as no one at all, will have children who learn that they are no one at all. Maybe you think that they are too young to notice, that they do not perceive or reflect so much. That is not true. Your attitude will be imprinted in their hearts and their souls.

Provide them with the attention they deserve. Create space for the patience that children often need. Show them the love you want them to carry in their hearts for the rest of their lives.

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I believe we all have met them. The bullies. Children may be extra sensitive, since they are building a basic self-esteem. Building self-esteem is a demanding process. Unfortunately, the hard work can easily be razed.

Protect your children from people who hurt them in different ways. It can be everything from diminishing, almost hidden comments to physical violence. It can be everything from a bullying classmate to an abusive parent.

Also explain to them why people sometimes behave badly, that the problem lies within the perpetrators. There is no reason to take on the blame for other’s bad behaviour.

Even if we sometimes can perceive explanations to someones bad behaviour, we should not make up excuses for the perpetrator, because that may end up in a very dangerous manipulative situation. Everyone should be responsible for their actions and our children should know that.

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It may turn out wrong when we take for granted that young people can cope when they reach puberty. They are “almost adults” now. They are going to high school! We will be wrong in this matter because of the fact that their brains are under “reorganization,” their entire lives are under construction. For parents to be present, helping them through this remodel is, of course, of great meaning. To me, this is not the same as “spoiling” them. We understand that we have to separate one thing from another.

I think about this often in our every day life when my children now are entering this phase of life – I have to take a step back, but still be very close.

Eva Träff, decreasedisorders.com

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Imagine what we all can accomplish together in our societies if we all would be aware of The Bystander Effect. The Bystander Effect is one of the reasons to why children are ”allowed” to continue their bullying in schools. Adults are also bullied at work. Abuse in families is overlooked, and other destructive behaviors are allowed to continue. Often there are many people around, who are aware of an ongoing situation.

Is the following a true statement?: The more people who know about a situation, the less responsibility rests on my shoulders.

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If we imagine for a second that it is ourselves, or maybe our grown up child who is lying there, with unbearable stomach pain, without being able to breathe, and with the conviction that this may be the last day in life, and hundreds of citizens look at you / your child and just passes by… How would we experience such a thing? Would we ever get over it? That is, if we survive?

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While your children are growing up, a lot will happen around them. You may be extremely tired and irritated, and sometimes one last straw will break the camel’s back. We all know it.

But still, it is a good thing for your children if you are aware of the following:

Try to not yell at them, blame them or make them ashamed of things they have not done, cannot help or cannot control. If it does happen you need to apologize for your mistake.

To grow up with a lot of blame and shame and with parents who do not show respect by asking for forgiveness, can be devastating to a child’s development. It may reinforce narcissistic traits within a child, since ”nothing ever will be their fault again.”

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We all want our children to turn out well. One important part of this is to teach them to apologize when they have actually made a mistake and caused problems for others. This way shame can be turned into self-confidence in actually being able to admit mistakes. They are still good people, you know.

But also teach them to draw a line between what they’ve caused, and which problems that are actually caused by others. Unfortunately, the world is crowded with narcissistic people, who repeatedly manages to put blame for their mistakes on another person’s shoulders.

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Beauty is great fun but try to not get stuck in a destructive struggle for it. And alongside your interest in beauty, try to find deeper and more sustainable interests in life – Joy that will last all the way to your last day.

On your last day, make sure to be able to look back to a great life, not only focusing on the beauty that disappeared alongside your happiness.

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